Jason’s team boxer-brief, in case you were curious. As for your weekend wardrobe, we’ve got packing tips and dress codes to make sure you’re dressed for the moment (and the weather).

While we love a mini hot dog as much as the next person, we’ve got way better things up our sleeves.

While we adore your little ones, this weekend is all about relaxation and uninhibited revelry. So, we politely request no children—treat yourself to a grown-up getaway!

Kindly refer to your invitation. If you see "and Guest" then yes; if not, they might want to consider other plans for the weekend.

Canandaigua in late summer is a wildcard (welcome to Western New York). So here’s your packing cheat sheet for maximum weekend fun:

• Athleisure and Sneakers for exploring (or just impressing Jason)

• A swimsuit for the pool or lake

• Sunscreen (be smarter than the sun)

• Your favorite toiletries. Staying onsite? Shampoo, conditioner, body wash, and lotion are provided.

• Layers—think late summer warmth by day, sweater weather by night

• Pajamas

We’re handling the food for the big moments—welcome party, reception, etc.—but in-between bites, you’ve got options:

• The Rose Tavern is the main restaurant on property serving breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch all weekend.

• The Sand Bar is a great casual eatery for lunch, dinner, or an afternoon snack and cocktail.

• The Library Bar has snacks, drinks, and coffee when you need a quick pick-me-up.

• The Pool Shack will be slinging bites during the pool party.

Head’s up: the welcome party is heavy on hors d’oeuvres that we think will be more than filling and satisfying, but it isn’t a full sit-down dinner. If you prefer a bigger meal, feel free to grab dinner beforehand.

Yes! We planned the weekend so no one has to go anywhere unless they want to.

Every event is hosted onsite to make things easy, cozy, and intimate. But if you’re feeling adventurous, we highly encourage exploring Canandaigua during your downtime.

Not unless you’re trying to hit your steps goal.

Everything’s close, but if you need any assistance, just let us know, and we’ll make sure you’re taken care of.

Welcome Party | Lakeside Chic 

• Ladies: Dresses, jumpsuits, or stylish separates fit for an evening by the lake.

• Gentlemen: Lightweight trousers or pants with a button-down or blazer.

Ceremony & Reception | Black Tie

• Ladies: Floor-length gowns or sophisticated, longer cocktail dresses.

• Gentlemen: Tuxedos or formal suits with a tie or bow tie.

If you’re staying at The Lake House, check-in starts at 4 PM, and check-out is by 11 AM.

Canandaigua might not be a big city, but getting here shouldn’t be challenging. Uber and Lyft are available in the area.

If you’re planning to explore the Finger Lakes, renting a car might be your best bet. Options are available at Rochester (ROC), Buffalo (BUF), and Syracuse (SYR) airports—all just a short drive away.

Staying at The Lake House? You’ve got perks:

• Shuttle service: Complimentary rides within 3 miles, so you can zip into town for coffee, cocktails, or a little boutique browsing.

• Airport transfers: Rochester to The Lake House is $150 (plus tax) for pick up or drop off, for a maximum 14 people.

Not directly, but no stress:

• Uber and Lyft are totally accessible and reliable.

• The Lake House offers complimentary shuttles within 3 miles (max 14 people).

• Self-park and valet options are available at The Lake House if you’re driving.

• Hotel Canandaigua is just a 5-minute walk, while the Holiday Inn is a quick 5-minute drive.